We naturally may think there are winners and losers in life, that you are either winning or losing but with a slightly different mindset we can come to see that there is only winning and learning and when you are learning you are still winning. I common phrase I like to live by is that … Continue reading Winners and Learners…
In the western world at least we've never lived in such a time where we've had so much opportunity and so much choice. What should I eat, wear, study, Who should I date, who should I marry, should I even get married?? Etc. Like everything in life when something improves it comes at the expense … Continue reading Choice can be a bad thing..
All of life operates on the ying yang principle and the feeling of love is no exception. We must realise that how deeply we are willing to fall in love is how far we are willing to fall into despair. Most people at sometime hopefully realise that to love someone fully they must truly love … Continue reading Love, a double edged sword…
Nobody ultimately cares about our life, Nobody ultimately cares about us. Hearing this at first may sound like a bad thing but I really believe it's a good thing. To be human we must have an ego, our ego is required to give us a sense of feeling separate which is a good thing, if … Continue reading Nobody cares and why it’s a good thing..
No matter what situation we find ourselves in life we always have a tendency to want it to be better. If we are flat broke, struggling to make ends meet and not knowing where our next meal is coming from then we would be craving drastic changes, in that situation money would bring us more … Continue reading Appreciating “ Now”
It's so easy to blame others for problems in our life. " if only they did this or didn't do that things would be different, my life would've been better..." In some situations this can be true, but many times what could have been is not always what would have been. I was fortunate enough … Continue reading Don’t play the victim.
Conflict, most people hate it, most people try to avoid it at all costs but conflict in a way can be a productive thing, people that have the ability to disagree, to argue and to come to an agreement not only learn how to learn to deal with conflict better in the future but it … Continue reading Avoiding outer conflict leads to inner conflict.